Sometimes we make it looks like the person in front of us is our only option, and so we settle without taking a look behind us.

We forget in a hurry that what is important about marriage is who we marry. When you choose a life partner, you choose many things. The person you choose today will have a significant impact on your life. Their lifestyles are considerably going to affect and influence your life.

Marriage is a tricky business, and decisions about it shouldn’t be taken in haste. Whom you choose is going to be a huge part of your life. Therefore, know what to look for when choosing.

There are some things if you fail to consider, you are going to live the rest of your life regretting. “I LIKE YOU, AND YOU LIKE ME BACK” DOESN’T MEAN YOU SHOULD BE TOGETHER. The root of most “ABUSIVE MARRIAGES” we see today! We fail to know them for who they are.

There are deal breakers we need to address before considering them as spouses. In that respect, anything that resembles or has any tendency of abuse, please do not align with; many ABUSE CASES we see today have their roots in the courtship stage. Most of the signs were shown, but they were overlooked because we thought the love would work them out.

When they start showing signs and red flags, don’t hope that they might change over time. IF YOU MARRY WRONG, YOUR MENTAL HEALTH WILL SUFFER. YOU WILL SUFFER ALL KINDS OF ABUSE AND, ULTIMATELY, DEATH!!!!

“Prayer doesn’t work where common sense needs to be applied.”

Conflicts in marriages are typical, but when they turn into abuse, please “FLEE”. Don’t feel pressured about what society and religion will say. Do not stay in and die in the name of “religiosity”.

ABUSE POSES A THREAT TO YOUR LIFE, DO NOT CONDONE IT!!!

ABUSE DRAWS THE LINE BETWEEN MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE. FLEE!!!

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